He's still active on the website and was bold enough to check his messages off that dating website from his cell while I was sitting next to him last weekend!! I also notice now he does not call as much over the last week or so.What I don't understand is he has said things to make me really think he likes me. He claims he told his mother about me as well as a close friend. He has a very hectic work schedule but I'm not convinced this is the reason we really have not made plans to see each other next. I think he has lost interest and now I'm wondering how terrible of a time he was having to check his mobile alerts from the dating site WHILE I WAS THERE. Several days ago I went online to the dating site to see if he was online which would not have bothered me so much as it was still new but on the heels of last week when he was checking the messages right in front of me I could not shake it. I sent him a message on the website that I was sorry as I completely misunderstood where this was going and said I get it.He then called and we had a very civil conversation.He said he did like me however he justified being online as he had paid for it, and the curiosity thing about someone finding you interesting, etc. I also said I really didn't want to call it quits, but what he did bothered me. He seemed to understand where I was coming from regarding him checking his messages but said that is meaningless and I should not care.Also by the way he and I live about 80 miles from each other so seeing each other can be a challenge.
He wondered why I was surprised he was still online, and I did not go into what he had said previously as I thought it pointless. In the conversation he said he felt as I was monitoring his activity and I assured him I'm not. He said I should have told him then what was bothering me or picked up the phone during the week.
He said we were at the beginning stages of our relationship and had not reached the next level. I called him yesterday and he said he was going to call me but was waiting for his schedule was not sure if he was going to have off other than Friday of next week which he said he could come down to me and stay and would let me know when he knows more.